The Friday Five, Dray-style!

Aug. 29th, 2026 04:15 pm
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This week's [community profile] thefridayfive questions, just for funsies:

1. What chores did you have to do, growing up?
- It varied, but was not strictly regimented. Generally, so long as I left spaces roughly as clean as I found them and didn't leave anything on the floor, it was considered acceptable.

2. Which chore do you hate doing the most?
- Emptying the cat's litter box was an overwhelming sense-sensation, and pulling stuff out of the kitchen sink drain similarly gave me such a case of the 'yucks' as a kid that I usually tried to escape doing them. I had a distinct moment in my early teens when I was able to confront the kitchen sink gunk with a certain level of equanimity and felt like a 'real adult' for a moment.

3. Which chore do you actually enjoy doing?
- During winter, I'd shovel our section of the walkway, and I loved it so much that I'd shovel out the neighbours' too, energy permitting. One year when a neighbour got a snow blower, he was peeved that his sidewalk had already been cleared before he could play with his new toy! Woops!

4. Did you receive an allowance when you were growing up?
- Not in any regimented way. I'd occasionally get some money, but usually very little (we're talking loonies and those old paper two-dollar bills with the robins on them!) Once, my grandfather told me that if I could tell what bird was on our then $50 bills, I could have the bill. I turned around and told him "snowy owl" on the spot and he looked at the back of the bill, looked at me, and gave it over so regretfully. Sir: I loved birds, I loved money, and I didn't realize you didn't think I'd know the answer! You should have been more prepared!

5. What was (or is) your favorite subject in school?
- I didn't really enjoy much of anything in school, looking back on it with fresher eyes. I tolerated a lot, but while I got good grades, I did not excel-- It was more like I shotgunned all the classes to 'get through them' faster. (I was a pretty miserable kiddo, but that's another can of worms.)
- The first class I remember really enjoying was the stoichiometry unit in Chemistry 20 or 30. The equivalence and balance in chemical reactions, really learning and understanding how something could change from one compound into another and still retain its mass (or if it didn't, where did the remainder go, or how did the new stuff accrete?), that stuff fascinated me in a way that no other science could. Even though I loved biology, zoology, and prehistoric creatures, those were never taught in a way that caught my mind like stoichiometry was taught. Later, in my first year of university (before I pivoted into the arts) I ate up organic chemistry in the same way. I loved learning about chirality and organic compounds, and that was probably the first place that I started being very curious about where real life and theory danced together to produce new and cool molecules. (I was terrible at the maths, calculus, etc. that would be needed to really excel in organic chem, and I also hated the thought of going into oil or pharma, so in terms of IRL capitalistic pursuits it was a dead end... but it sure did stoke my imagination!)

Command Line is like Spelling

Aug. 27th, 2026 02:23 pm
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Started to think of an analogy that really encapsulates what is so frustrating to me about Linux and Coding related trouble shooting.

Back in gradeschool, I think starting around 3rd grade, I had great difficulty spelling. I could read well but spelling things from memory was exceptionally difficult and if I didn't have a means of writing it down it was near impossible. I'm pretty sure I only scored 100% on maybe one of my spelling tests. So when writing essays or for homework I would often ask how something was spelled and then I'd get told 'look it up in the dictionary'. A thing parroted by multiple adults in my life.

For example, any word that started with a PH. How was I supposed to know that the F sound was a PH sound if I rarely ever encountered the word in writing? Even things I did encounter, I couldn't retain the letters of the word in my mind, it was always stored as an approximate. So the instruction to 'look it up', did me no good because I didn't even have the foundational knowledge of where I'm supposed to be looking in the first place.

This is what it feels like to trouble shoot in Linux. I have an approximate knowledge of so many thing, that it makes it difficult to know where I'm even supposed to start searching at all. Asking questions about it can be a minefield of people that will certainly help and point you in the right direction, and just as many people that tell you to look it up just like all the adults that told me to look it up.

Add this to the way that my mind stores text-like information where it's all a fuzzy blob of an approximate until I can SEE something, and it all makes the whole process very taxing. And is so, very exhausting, to try to get other people to understand this.

Community Thursday

Aug. 27th, 2026 10:41 am
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It's been a busy week on Dreamwidth, but mostly because I added quite a few folks from [community profile] addme a few weeks ago and suddenly have lots of interesting things to talk about!

In any case, here's my plug for DW Communities via interactions.




  • [community profile] seasonsofdrabbles - I wrote and submitted my person's request! Just waiting for the reveal now.

  • [community profile] weekendwritingmarathon - Chatting with the admin and folks in the discord for this community to help get the oomph to write! They got me through both my drabble quest and helping to set up an X-Files Casefic I'm writing for some friends.

  • [community profile] itsabattlefield - Commented on the latest theme, 'combinations' as a nice way to get ideas for making icons! Unfortunately I haven't been drawing enough to make good use of these yet.

  • [community profile] naarmamo - I updated the 4th week (nearly wrapped, wooh!) and shared some sketches I'd done. Unfortunately, Dreamwidth continues to be a little dodgy about image sharing: imgur.com won't show up for folks in the UK!

  • [community profile] addme - Chatted with a few new folks! Lots of cool people using this site!

  • [personal profile] enablemeplz - Daydreaming about my old RP days and wishing I both had the oomph to commit to RP, and the lack of complexity and baggage to just jump into something new. (I suppose that would be my 'impulsiveness' from the ADHD, because I have not yet resolved the baggage in any meaningful way and I know I'd wind up ghosting or hurting someone's feelings once the urge to respond died down again, so I'm only window shopping and renewing my need to resolve some of my bad behaviours)

  • [community profile] iconcolors - I managed to get one icon in for the previous palette, one after the deadline, and have a sketch mostly done being inked that I would use to complete the set!

    (These are for Cyrrin, an NB dragon who's spent so much time in human form that they're really conflicted about what feels 'real' and what is a 'front'. They're for [personal profile] jkatkina, who writes this character in a delectably complex manner.)

  • [community profile] nexticon - I posted an icon following inspiration from the previous!

    A dreamlike image for Ryan in 'Hellgary', which really is still just the working title for a comic that I'd started in 2010 about two friends going through eldritch end-of-the-world shit together.

  • [community profile] everykindofcraft - commented on the latest necklaces being shared, which continue to slap!

  • [community profile] thankfulthursday - Joined and posted here, as I like a good gratitude community!

Community Thursday Updates!

Aug. 20th, 2026 03:59 pm
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Community Thursday challenge: every Thursday, try to make an effort to engage with a community on Dreamwidth, whether that's posting, commenting, promoting, etc.



Over the last week I posted to these...

- [community profile] naarmamo: Hosting weekly prompts to share art that's been made this month! I even posted some work that I'd finished up in the latest round.
- [community profile] nexticon: Voting and commenting on the latest batch of icons that have been made; the folks who keep this community active have a really nice flow of "the last icon inspired me to do this!" that's fun to see placed all together. One day I need to get back to drawing art for icons again... needs more DWRP as an excuse, though.
- [community profile] seasonsofdrabbles: Iiiii joined the Autumn round of a drabblefic exchange. I've never done fandom exchange writing before (at least not in the formalized way that yuletide fic and other AO3 Organized Institutions of fandom have worked) and I have always been really nervous about it, but drabbles are so succinct that, even if I fuck myself over with anxiety or aversion over having a deadline, I know I could write something decent within a limited timeline. So we'll see! I'm also (so as not to emphasize just the negative side) very excited to try something new? I've limited myself to fandoms that I know very well and would love to write for and receive for, so I'm hoping that will serve as encouragement!
- [community profile] addme: I stuck my toe in the water and wrote a post here, and managed to find some very cool DW users who have enriched my days quite a bit with their thoughtful posts. Yay!
- [community profile] newcomers: I shared my image hosting issue in hopes of finding a fix that doesn't require me to move my image hosting elsewhere and/or migrate my entire website from an http to an https format!
- [community profile] rainbowlounge: First time in a while that I've seen someone post here as a 'hi I'm new!' hand-wave. Waved back, encouraged some participation. (Whistling with my hands in my pockets as I distinctly avoid doing any creative writing of my own, even if I have about 7 different nearly complete ficlets to post. Who has an ADHD diagnosis? Noooo, not me!)

I am forever looking over my community list and wondering if there are ways to help burnish them up. I'm so on-and-off of Dreamwidth, but I enjoy the fact that this place allows me to conglomerate all sorts of different friends-groups into one reading list!
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So Dreamwidth doesn't generally do excellently with image hosting, that's fine. However, my personal hosting is not working for some reason. Example:

This extremely shiny bird should show up in my post as an [img src=http://www.nexusofdragons.com/dray/Adoptions/EVENTS/RainbowGlitz/EstidaxTaichi08-Malitherii.png"] tag (replacing the square brackets for the pointed, obviously) if I insert it directly via html. What happens is this:



In other words, the images from my website are not supported for some reason. Does Dreamwidth guard against websites that don't have "https" in their title or is something else going on? My hosting is old, but it's not compromised. I'm not sure why I can't use it here!

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